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停止“玩”你的目标
我之所以坐下来写这篇文章,是因为我只有一个意图。这个意图是把你从自满中惊醒,以防万一你漫不经心地进入一个释放舒适区。
How often do you "play" at releasing? Do you release a little bit here and there and then stop?
你是否常常把释放当成游戏漫不经心地玩?你是否这儿释放一点那儿释放一点,然后就停止了?
Often we play with our goals, unconsciously not really wanting or expecting to actually achieve them.
经常我们“玩弄”我们的目标,无意识的不是真的想要或者期望真有达成它们。
Most of us are often afraid of both failing and succeeding in achieving our goals, and so we don't really make the decision to shift our consciousness into the consciousness of having our goals. We fear the ego backlash. We fear the "beating ourselves up" that has come so many times in the past when we tried and failed. Or, we fear the consequences of actually getting what we want and then regretting it or realizing it doesn't really make us happy.
我们中大多数人常常既害怕失败又害怕成功的达成目标,因此我们不是真的下定决心转换我们的意识进入到拥有目标的意识状态。我们害怕小我的强烈反应。我们害怕会象以前一样:很多次的尝试然后失败。这太“打击我们自己”了。或者,当我们真的得到我们想要的后,我们害怕会有严重后果:感到懊悔或者是意识到它不是真的使我们幸福。
Because of these fears, we haven't truly made the decision yet to create our life according to our intentions. Perhaps we feel it is safer to drift comfortably along with our unconscious programs rather than shake things up a little.